Do you feel like there is more to life but not sure where to start changing things?

Gillian Bower
Gillian Bower

Hi, I'm the owner and founder of Menopositive and here to help you ditch the witch and get classy, sassy and a little bit badassy too.

Have you ever felt like there is more to life and you’re not sure how to make the changes? It is important to remember that it is never too late to live out the life that we dream of.

As women, we often find ourselves in a place of transition, unsure where to start making meaningful change.

Midlife can be a confusing time. You may feel like there is something missing in your life or that you are on the wrong path. It’s normal to feel this way but it can also be overwhelming to try and figure out what to do next if you’re struggling to find meaning and purpose.

As you navigate the hormonal and physical changes that come along with this phase of life, it’s natural to feel like there must be more to life. You may find yourself longing for a deeper sense of purpose and fulfilment but feeling unsure of where to start when it comes to finding it.

If this sounds like you, don’t worry you’re not alone. Here are some tips for getting started in uncovering your life’s purpose.

 

Allow Yourself to Dream Again

One of the best ways to discover your true purpose is by reconnecting with your dreams and aspirations. When was the last time you took some time out for reflection? Think about what you wanted when you were younger.  What did you want to be when you grew up? What excited you and made your heart sing? Write down these thoughts in a journal or create a vision board and revisit them often.

 

Explore Your Passions

You don’t have to limit yourself when exploring your passions – the sky is the limit. What activities bring joy and make time seem to fly by? Is there something that makes your heartbeat faster when you think about it? This could range from painting and gardening, all the way to entrepreneurship or travel. Don’t be afraid to pursue activities that challenge or scare you – they can lead to amazing rewards.

 

Take Time for Reflection

The first step towards finding greater meaning in your life is taking some time for reflection. Ask yourself questions such as “What am I passionate about?” and “What matters most to me?” Taking the time to really think about these things can help you gain clarity about what you want from life and how best to get there.

 

Set Goals

Once you’ve taken some time for reflection, the next step is setting meaningful goals that will help bring more joy and fulfilment into your life. Try breaking down big goals into smaller objectives so they are easier to achieve and don’t forget to celebrate each milestone along the way. Setting achievable goals will help keep you motivated and focused on reaching your ultimate vision of success.

 

Find Support

Adding support into your life is key when making any significant changes, especially when it comes to personal growth. Seek out friends or family members who will provide encouragement and advice as you work towards achieving your goals. Additionally, consider joining an online community or self-help group with individuals who share similar interests or challenges as you. Having someone who understands your journey can make a huge difference in staying motivated and inspired throughout the process of finding more meaning in midlife.

 

Identifying Our Desires

What is it that we want from life? Do we want a career change or do we just want more balance? Do we want a new hobby or closer relationships with family and friends? Whatever it may be, taking the time to really identify and explore our desires is critical for finding fulfilment in midlife. We can use this time for self-exploration by reflecting on what we are passionate about and what brings us joy. Once we have identified our desires, the next step is understanding how those desires will fit into our lives.

 

Making Changes Happen

Once we understand what it is that we desire, the next step towards meaningful change is taking action. We may need to make some tough decisions such as leaving a job or ending an unhealthy relationship in order to achieve our goals. This process can be overwhelming at times but having a plan will help keep us on track and motivated throughout the process. Making small achievable goals along the way will also help us stay focused on achieving our desired outcome. Additionally, reaching out for support from friends and family can help us stay accountable as well as provide encouragement when needed.

 

Get Creative with Self-Care

During perimenopause, it can be easy to prioritise everyone else over yourself. This is why self-care is so important – it helps us reconnect with ourselves on a deeper level and allows us to rediscover our own unique needs and desires. Take some time each day for yourself – even if it feels indulgent at first, as this will help open up new possibilities for personal growth.  Maybe try yoga or meditation, practice writing affirmations, or explore hobbies such as cooking or baking – whatever works best for YOU.

 

Looking Ahead Towards Fulfilment

Finally, once changes have been made and goals set, it’s time to look ahead towards fulfilment. After making all these changes, it’s important to take time for self-care so that we can enjoy all these new experiences without feeling overwhelmed or burnt out. Having fulfilling relationships with those who are important in our lives will also be essential for long-term happiness and contentment. Overall, realising meaningful change in midlife takes patience and effort but with dedication and commitment anything is possible.

 

While it can be daunting to start making changes in midlife, it doesn’t have to be overwhelming. Taking small steps such as engaging in reflective thinking, setting achievable goals and finding support will all help lead you on the path towards greater fulfilment during this stage of life. With patience and effort, soon enough you’ll find yourself living a happier, more meaningful existence than ever before.

 

Perimenopause offers an opportunity for personal growth and discovery like never before. By reflecting on your passions, allowing yourself the space to dream again and incorporating creative self-care routines into your lifestyle, you can find the clarity needed in order uncovering the true purpose of your life during this exciting period of transition.

 

No matter which stage of life you are currently in – whether you are just entering perimenopause or already experiencing its full effects- it’s never too late to make meaningful changes that will lead you down a path of greater fulfilment. Start by exploring your passions and interests then create achievable goals along the way until you reach your desired outcome. With patience and support from friends and family, anything is possible, so don’t be afraid & start creating meaningful changes today.

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